Marriage season is in full swing and Indian weddings are known for their grandeur, music, tradition and of course food. But have you ever wondered the most common question is not about the bride or the groom or the decoration but rather ” Did you have food”. Those who are not familiar with Indian culture might find this oft-repeated question amusing, but food holds great significance in Indian traditions.
The Significance of Food in Indian Tradition and Culture : No celebration is complete without food as it is at the heart of every festival, bringing people together to share joys and happiness. From grand wedding feasts to the sweet treats like Gulab Jamun (Rose Berries) and Rabri (Sweetened Condensed Milk) during festivals, food in our country is so much more than just something to eat.
It is the way we express love and celebrate happiness. The rich diversity of our country is also reflected in its food also. While Bengal is famous for its sweets, Lucknow and Hyderabad are known for their mouth-watering Biryani. Similarly, Delhi and Kolkata’s street food is gastronomic delight to savour. Each dish has its own story and adds a unique flavour to every celebration, making it unforgettable
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Indian families be it of any religion take pride in hosting lavish feast, which one feels is sometimes unnecessary ( but this is for some other article). This is their way of showing love and hospitality. For the hosts, it is not just about serving food, but creating an experience where everyone feels special and cared for. We take pride in displaying our culinary expertise, and nothing gives us more joy than guests praising the hosts for a sumptuous meal.
Why “Did You Have Food is Asked”
This question did you have food is more than just a question. It serves as an ice-breaker between two persons who are meeting after a long time. It carries warmth and concern, but at the same time, the recipient of this repeated inquiry can’t help but feel exhausted hearing it over and over again from different people. He feels helpless but has to smile and respond, either affirmatively or negatively. After a while, he simply starts nodding his head, as if he already knows what the question is going to be.”
So the next time if someone asks you “Did you have food”, do not get agitated. Instead smile to reciprocate the polite gesture and thank your stars for being part of the grand Indian Jamboree that is the Great Indian Wedding.
